Updating FEZ Spider FW

I have problems updating the FW of a new FEZ Spider.
I tried to do so with the old GHI_Config_tool (I had it on my PC), and it didn’t work. then I installed the new tool (with the new full package here: http://www.ghielectronics.com/support/.net-micro-framework#sthash.uzelEAvm.dpuf).
I’m using the link:
and the link:
the problem is:

  1. the tool thinks my spider is in Loader mode while the pin is configured to the default (all 4 pins is up).
  2. when I’m updating the FW, (and configure the pin to loader mode) the tool does not recognize the device.